The Language of Touch
Our bodies have a tremendous capacity to experience pleasure through our senses: taste, sight, sound, smell, and touch. Heightening the senses to the point Cuckoldchat of exquisite joy is a playful art. Massage is a means in which we can easily connect with the realm of eroticism, and where we can relax and explore each other intimately.
Touch is said to be the food for our souls and is a tactile experience that is vital for health, happiness and overall well-being. A large part of our brains are given over to this sensory department and it is the primary sense we develop. Interestingly enough, touch is the first sense an embryo experiences in the womb as it strokes its finger or thumb across its skin. For a newborn, touch is the first point of contact with its mother and the world at large.
We establish healthy self-esteem and appreciation for our own bodies through being touched in a loving way and we develop these attitudes early in our lives. By having these healthy attitudes towards ourselves, we can create happy and fulfilling sexual relationships.
The yearning to be touched remains with us, especially as adults and promiscuity is often a search for being touched in a nurturing way. Unfortunately, the pleasuring of one another through loving touch and massage is greatly neglected and our bodies subtle sense’s ignored.
In western culture, aural sensations and aggressive visual sex dominate, and the more dulled the delicate levels of sensual receptivity become. It’s sad that in particular touch of the human body for pleasure is morally condemned and regulated by culture, religion, society and government. Even within sexual relationships, exploration of the senses through the language of touch is censored by prevailing attitudes held by both partners and sex generally becomes purely a genital experience with orgasm and ejaculation being the primary goal in mind.
By learning the language of touch through the art and skills of massage we can discover the delights of full body sensuality and set the whole body alight with exquisite pleasure. All of our body’s senses, in particular our skin responses, bond our outer realities together to our inner experiences – i.e. what we feel. Touch, skin and our feelings are quite literally inseparable from each other, and to have our skin touched and caressed in a sensual, tender and nurturing way brings a deeper level of being to what it means to be human.
The Strokes of Sensual Massage
Make the mood of massage sensuous by keeping your stokes flowing and soft. Use the flat of your hands to slither and slide, and caress your lover’s body. Even during sensual massage hong kong sensual massage you can use more invigorating massage techniques like kneading as long as you blend the strokes harmoniously together.
Play between your movements and allow your motions to merge into one another as of you were playing a symphony on your lover’s body. Do remember to let your stokes be fluid, never jerky, and always take your strokes around or outwards of the body rather than abruptly stopping in mid-flow.
Begin your sensual massage with an area of your lover’s body using softer strokes that will relax your partner physically as well as psychologically. This will also warm up and stretch their body’s soft tissue.
Sensual Massage incorporates different stroke techniques that will soothe and arouse your lover. The fan stroke can be used all over their body and may vary in size and strength depending on the particular effect that you are wishing to achieve. Small fan strokes applied with some measure of pressure that are moving up the body will stretch tissue and release muscle tension as well as boost blood circulation. Using softer, larger fan strokes will give a more euphoric effect. Flowing fan strokes should slide steadily and at an even pressure over the skin using the full surface of the hands and they should be sufficiently soft to mold and melt into the contours of the body. When enlarging your strokes to encompass larger areas of the body.